Your kids are obviously ascending into spiritually mature humans Ivar... you should not fear for them. As an ascending being the first thing I felt was important to do is make sure my parents would not fear for something happening to me.
Everytime they tought about it it's like I felt some kind of eerie feeling which disturbed me and might have caused me to de bistracted and have said accident. I even had to talk to them about it... it took about 10 years for them to finally understand. So it's natural, but counterproductive.
Ascending children are given new dream from the earth, what you can do however is find out if there are sources of corruption around them, by following your insight about that in lucid dreams, then finding subtle ways to introduce it in a communication, but not premeditated, if it's not spontaneous they won't listen. For some reason, it's my experience, and since I'm still an adolescent, I think it applies or soon will.
I know it might sound strange, but dystrophy is usually caused by lack of symbiotic mushrooms in that part of the body... lack of ionic mineral transfer makes limbs shrivel and blacken. The bad guys can be killed with the chlorine dioxide I talked about, bathing the limb in it *diluted in water of course* (lots of dead stuff should be pulled out, making the water very cloudy) then once it's very clean, you apply a layer of clay oil.
That is made with ultrafine clay and olive oil (ozonated for an hour or two if possible) ; you mix those until a thick consstency that leaves a nice layer when spread, and then you wrap the limb into cloth and sleep with it. It should be pink within 2-3 weeks.
To reinforce the bones is essential, so mineral supplements (3-magnesium AND 1-calcium together at least), and make sure said antioxidants aren't ascorbic acid !